Well FALL is already here and it's well yes indeed kinda chilly outside and WINTER is right around the corner. I have propane to heat half my house and a coal stove to heat the other half the of the house, don't get me wrong it's a wonderful thing... WHEN IT WORKS properly. I can blame this failure on my husband...
He started it about a week or two ago, with the night time weather dropping in the low teens... it's a wonderful thing since half my house is like 90+ degree's and the other half the house stays at a nice cool 68 degree's which is a nice mix... you can feel the temp change when coming in from out side... which is good! But last night the husband was being stupid... the stove almost went out... using the two bags of coal that I had brought inside he decided that he'd leave the other bags outside... not realizing that it's been blah the last few days he should have brought them in to DRY so they wouldn't cause issues with the stove, NEVER FEED A COAL STOVE WET COAL, that's a big NO NO! So he did anyways and by morning the stove that was almost out last night was yet again almost out again... so now I'm fighting with damp coal and a stupid stove! Grrr... I'm 37 weeks pregnant and shouldn't be lifting 50 lbs of RICE COAL for a COAL STOVE period! But since I'm the only one home who can physically lift it I guess it's left for me to do! On top of that it can sometimes get TOO HOT in this house too! It has it's days and has it's nights but when the weather is really nice it sucks cause with a coal stove their ain't no on/off switch once you start you can't stop till the season's over unless you wanna spend endless hours starting the stove up constantly... it's never fun it's a process that can take anywhere from 45 minutes to 90 minutes to get it to stay constantly lit.
So that's my little rant about my coal stove today... I'm sure all be back to write more about it ... I blame his mother who jinxed us yesterday!
Thursday, November 15, 2012
Tuesday, November 13, 2012
What do you do when your neighbor's are idiots?!
What do you do when your neighbor's are idiot's?!
(you document, record and inform the appropriate people)
Alright... most people have common sense and then again most people don't!
You've got the idiot, the educated idiot, and the uneducated idiot... well my neighbors fall into two of them the idiot and the educated idiot... well if you semi educated you seriously got issues. First of all you shouldn't be burning outta season hence it's very dangerous. Second you should be burning illegal things and posting it on facebook, durh hello seriously STUPID. Third you really should be careful with what you say when the person who say it to is married to the deputy chief of the fire department and of course has more concern for her husband than your stupid dream farm. So the first night Saturday ... we were driving up our road... and down at the start of the cemetery I could see a fire... as we got closer to the house it got bigger... well being me I flipped out on my husband who's the deputy and MADE him walk up and talk to them... they were burning a sofa, building material and other weird things... yeah you had marshmallow's and stuff but that's not a cooking fire... that right their is an illegal burn which in some ways is a felony offence (when you start burning pallets, sofa's, paint things, and electrical shit...) ... so the next day when I go visit they are still doing that shit... and they have the nerve to ask me "is their any one in the tower?" well honestly I wouldn't know as I don't have the portable. So I guess you gonna just have to wait and see... yet he was clear enough to who he was working with ... "it has to be out by 6 pm cause Lorne gets home a little after 7 and I don't want to listen to him" NEWSFLASH don't do stupid illegal shit and you won't deal with him.
I have pictures of course... to prove what they are doing... and to use against them if anything so happens.
They are in violation of many burning codes...
1. not burning season
2. they were burning all day until 6 pm burning season only permits 10 am till 4 pm and nothing can be started after noon)
3. they are only permitted to burn brush (not pallets, not building materials, etc.)
4. you have to be 75 feet away from ANY DWELLING (including barns) yet they are more like fifteen feet from a barn, but they are far enough away from houses
5. you must have a water source available in-case the fire gets out of control
6. your area must be enclosed (yeah not a area where you have two open spots)
7. you can't be more than 3 feet high (yet they so where)
but that's just to name a few...
So yeah easy what do you when they are that stupid... document it, record it, inform the authorities, and watch the shit hit the fan... except to be honest... I'm not doing anything wrong when you call and inform it as an anonymous tip and say your looking out for the near by dwellings... thankful this idiot has a hearing on the 14th (tomorrow) about his supposed farm... I don't care how shitty I feel I'm gonna go to that... hopefully my mom can come watch the kids... and help me out... well
that's enough for this entry... all be sure to write about these idiots threw out the next few years... sadly I'm also related to them... only threw marriage though!
Monday, November 12, 2012
Weekend Wrap up & a little of today!
Wow- what a freaking weekend
Saturday, November 10th, 2012:
Well let's see the husband work his 8:30 am till 6:00 pm shift at the car-dealership. I was sick all day and spent most of it if not all of it on my tiny sofa in pain. Then like at 5:30 pm got the nerve since my husband send me a text saying he never gets to rest before he falls asleep... wow... make a pregnant wife, mother and person feel really shit while she's sick... so bad that I cleaned the whole freaking house... yup cleaned it and even hunted down the infant car-seat bases and wound up on my butt in the storage box ... yup that hurt... then once he got home around 7:00 pm we loaded the kids up and headed off to Stop and Shop to get WIC and some food spending almost $100.00 ooops! Not my intentions but damn... gotta finish the SNAP application because we can't afford crap now... this SUCKS!
Came home, made some soup and I went to bed... same with the boys since they were over tired...
Best part to Saturday was having my husband go up and warn the neighbors that they were doing a stuff that could get them arrested. Dummies .. I'm tired of it ... next time I'm calling it in and reporting it... then they can say it was me and I'd be like wasn't me I got better things to do than watch out for your stupidity... Well that was Saturday and it wasn't much fun since I felt like I was hit by a damn Mack Truck that drove over threw itself into reverse and backed over me ... damn damn damn and I feel that way again today (on a Manic Monday)
Sunday, November 11, 2012 (Veteran's Day):
Well let's see hubby let me sleep in till like 8:00 am. That was nice since it was a nice solid 10 hours of sleep with out getting up in the middle of the night... after that I was def. afraid to get outta bed cause last time that happened when I got outta bed at 36 weeks and 5 days pregnant with my last pregnancy. But then again I'm kinda anxious to get him out he's causing me ton's of pain...
So my husband worked his 11:00 am till 6:00 pm shift at the car-dealership... yet he was so lucky to come home to a home cooked meal that was ready and served to him as soon as he walked threw the door... damn he's lucky... and the kids were already bathed and in PJs ... yeah he had an EASY night while I had a semi rough day... seriously! All I asked was for a foot massage but that got interrupted because of a medical call up the road, then he was dead set on me sitting in the Jacuzzi Tub don't get me wrong it was nice at first yet it def. did some work on me since I couldn't walk when I got out cause of the water interference with the belly. He set it up for me but was supposed to help me out and and in yup I climbed in myself... then helped my self out (which sucked) because it was hard to stand... then again it caused me to be so congested I couldn't sleep, couldn't get comfortable and then I asked him to give me a ten minute calve massage but get the remark I treat him like a freaking slave... wtf ... I clean, cook and make sure he's GOT NOTHING to do when he gets home and I'm 36 weeks and 6 days pregnant suffering because no one will come help... besides my family when they can and his family says they'll help yet they are never around or are always busy. Like wow don't say your gonna help if you not gonna really help, seriously this sucks. Oh well that day's in the past... and so is the drama of next door too!
Monday, November 12, 2012 (Manic Monday 8:30 am until 10:30 pm of work for the Hubs)
Good-morning!
Wow it's already 10:48 am and it feels like it's 15 minutes to noon, yet that is probably because I have been up since freaking 4:45 am this morning with contractions, pain, cramps, congestion, and of course that horrible nightmare... Grrr gotta love it... boys were up at 7:00 am and they went to bed around 7:30 pm last night... wish they would have slept in, let alone I'm getting tired of the family saying Sean needs to be in preschool, I'd love to but since I can't work full-time since no one wants to help me out I can't do much to get money to pay for my all the stuff they want. (gotta love being said shit and having shit said behind my back and doing the best you can with what you have). Well my youngest managed to bite his tongue, ouchie but it's all better gotta love when they are wearing sleepers and slide across the floor ... ooops worst part is it's not even mopped, it's just always that slippery. Then him and his brother go into it ... all because he wanted to cuddle with his older brother who's in the stage he don't want nothing to do with him, makes me sad I miss the caring side of him... he wants to interact with kids his own age but can't cause I don't have the money to send him there... and of course no one wants to help ... we don't make nearly as much money as we did before when the hub's worked at Walgreen's yet this is gonna be a better paying job... but I don't see it... We are behind in the cable, cell, house, car, and of course electric... oh and we need propane... JOYFUL! talk about stress!
Well it's now 10:53 am and I need to rest... I'm stressing so much I am getting sick... let alone I don't think I'm eating enough to keep up with my strength ... glad I got a doctors appointment this coming Wednesday and tomorrow lil man has his appointment for his flu shot tomorrow... joyful!
Sunday, November 11, 2012
Happy Veterans Day
Happy Veteran's Day!
God Bless all those who've served & done all they can to serve! You've given us our FREEDOM at the cost of many things to you... I'd like to thank you from the bottom of my heart knowing that Freedom don't come Free at no cost! God Bless you, your family & your fellow brothers & sisters! & God Bless the one's who serve today... Who are giving back to these vet's so they know that what they fought for so long ago is still being fought for today! GOD BLESS YOU ALL ....
Once a soldier Always a soldier
Once a marine Always a marine
Always remembered Never forgotten
God Bless all those who've served & done all they can to serve! You've given us our FREEDOM at the cost of many things to you... I'd like to thank you from the bottom of my heart knowing that Freedom don't come Free at no cost! God Bless you, your family & your fellow brothers & sisters! & God Bless the one's who serve today... Who are giving back to these vet's so they know that what they fought for so long ago is still being fought for today! GOD BLESS YOU ALL ....
Once a soldier Always a soldier
Once a marine Always a marine
Always remembered Never forgotten
Saturday, November 10, 2012
Weekend Has Arrived
Wow... we made it to Saturday!-+
Well last night Ange was able to not blow us off! Yay! But she honestly didn't do much... I feed the kids, changed the kids, and even put them to bed... so much for actual help... heck I even stood over my stove making food for myself feeling like I was gonna fall into it and yeah ... thankfully I didn't... She went in to say goodnight to the boys and she passed out on the day bed in their room along with the kids... seriously! Oh well everyone was out at 7:10 pm. So I used that time to eat and rest... cause I just was feeling like utter crap... and still am feeling like crap... thank you lovely coal stove that has dried out my house... Grrr I need more humidifiers and more rest... though it will never happen!
Well today Connor was up at 6:45 am according to dad... and Sean was up at 7:00 am according to day but they let me sleep until 8:00 am which was nice yet they are at each other's throats already and Connor's already ready for his nap... TOO EARLY though it's only been 3 hours since he's been up ... I don't think he's feeling a 100% since he's been attached to my side. Either that or he didn't sleep well...
I went to bed at 1:00 am cause I couldn't breath... gotta love being congested then woke up to a bloody nose like really the last three days I have had horrible bloody noses cause of my damn coal stove that's apparently dried out the air in my house. I guess it's good that it keeps it warm but seriously we need more air circulation so that I'm not dealing with bloody noses, congestion and sore throats.
Well it's 10:00 am and my youngest wants to take his nap early nap hopefully means he will be up at a reasonable time ... Now to get my oldest to start listening to me and of course help me clean up... Can't touch boys room yet... but we can of course work on the living room once his brother is officially asleep that way we don't keep him up. Grrr!
On a side note... I'm not a happy camper at the present moment not because of my kids but because of my neighbors feeling they can use my drive way to access parts of their property ... I Freaking think NOT! My property not yours! Ugh seriously feeling like I'm gonna faint ... this sucks thanks for the stress jerks... and of course since my oldest won't listen to me I doubt his brother will actually take his nap... yup I was right this sucks balls TODAYs gonna be ROUGH!
BRB gotta put the youngest down... again! Ugh this is gonna be a rough day and I'm stuck doing everything myself... gotta love being pregnant and getting no help from people ... some I understand they work some purposely do shit to piss me off.... I'm bout to put an ends to a lot of shit!
Well time to get myself motivated even if I'm feeling weak, lightheaded, dizzy and of course like I'm gonna pass out ... cause someone has to clean this house and keep it perfect cause it's only me!
Well all be back later... maybe!
~Getting aggravated cause apparently I don't have property since they keep coming on to it... I'm bout to go ape shit... they take anything off it and we are gonna have words... I may be pregnant but my mouth ain't... all speak up... I don't give two flying freaks what people think! I married the land owner to this property all make sure things are done my way! Great now they are coming into the house BLAHHHHH~ So much for knocking on my door... right!
Well last night Ange was able to not blow us off! Yay! But she honestly didn't do much... I feed the kids, changed the kids, and even put them to bed... so much for actual help... heck I even stood over my stove making food for myself feeling like I was gonna fall into it and yeah ... thankfully I didn't... She went in to say goodnight to the boys and she passed out on the day bed in their room along with the kids... seriously! Oh well everyone was out at 7:10 pm. So I used that time to eat and rest... cause I just was feeling like utter crap... and still am feeling like crap... thank you lovely coal stove that has dried out my house... Grrr I need more humidifiers and more rest... though it will never happen!
Well today Connor was up at 6:45 am according to dad... and Sean was up at 7:00 am according to day but they let me sleep until 8:00 am which was nice yet they are at each other's throats already and Connor's already ready for his nap... TOO EARLY though it's only been 3 hours since he's been up ... I don't think he's feeling a 100% since he's been attached to my side. Either that or he didn't sleep well...
I went to bed at 1:00 am cause I couldn't breath... gotta love being congested then woke up to a bloody nose like really the last three days I have had horrible bloody noses cause of my damn coal stove that's apparently dried out the air in my house. I guess it's good that it keeps it warm but seriously we need more air circulation so that I'm not dealing with bloody noses, congestion and sore throats.
Well it's 10:00 am and my youngest wants to take his nap early nap hopefully means he will be up at a reasonable time ... Now to get my oldest to start listening to me and of course help me clean up... Can't touch boys room yet... but we can of course work on the living room once his brother is officially asleep that way we don't keep him up. Grrr!
On a side note... I'm not a happy camper at the present moment not because of my kids but because of my neighbors feeling they can use my drive way to access parts of their property ... I Freaking think NOT! My property not yours! Ugh seriously feeling like I'm gonna faint ... this sucks thanks for the stress jerks... and of course since my oldest won't listen to me I doubt his brother will actually take his nap... yup I was right this sucks balls TODAYs gonna be ROUGH!
BRB gotta put the youngest down... again! Ugh this is gonna be a rough day and I'm stuck doing everything myself... gotta love being pregnant and getting no help from people ... some I understand they work some purposely do shit to piss me off.... I'm bout to put an ends to a lot of shit!
Well time to get myself motivated even if I'm feeling weak, lightheaded, dizzy and of course like I'm gonna pass out ... cause someone has to clean this house and keep it perfect cause it's only me!
Well all be back later... maybe!
~Getting aggravated cause apparently I don't have property since they keep coming on to it... I'm bout to go ape shit... they take anything off it and we are gonna have words... I may be pregnant but my mouth ain't... all speak up... I don't give two flying freaks what people think! I married the land owner to this property all make sure things are done my way! Great now they are coming into the house BLAHHHHH~ So much for knocking on my door... right!
Friday, November 9, 2012
Mid-Day on the LONG DAY
Congratulations Amanda it's 1:27 pm on Friday, November 9th, 2012...
Well this morning Kayden was very quiet, he didn't move much and I drove all the way out to Springfield to drop off my husbands cell phone that he mistakenly left at home... no big deal he gave me $20.00 to bring it to him so I could put my $18.00 in my gas tank... I guess Whiting Energy no longer does propane so now I'm fucked... Ameri-Gas won't take us cause apparently we are in violation yet we passed when the house was built and so forth... so now we have to fix everything... before they will take us a new customers ... just freaking lovely... RIGHT?! So I guess Ostermen bought Whiting Energy's propane clients but who the hell know's how much they cost... this sucks... since we were told that Whiting was gonna deliver propane to us Monday or Tuesday ... GREAT... how the freak does that happen if they aren't doing propane anymore... like seriously what more can I take...
My goal today is clean the house, pack my hospital bag, and get the bases to the infant car-seats set up and ready for transport ... I'm hoping Kayden will come in the next few days cause I seriously can't take his I'm gonna be stubborn this day and then hyper this day... just come out already little man... we are ready... I mean I would love to meet you and get my belly down a size or two... lmfao.
I'm waiting to hear if Lorne's cousin is gonna bail out on us... like she bailed out on me last time... she better not be fucking lazy here either... I want to be able to rest... not have to worry bout much except packing my damn hospital bag, getting the infant car-seat in the SUV and ready in-case this weekend he chooses to come... Well I'm happy that my youngest has gone down for his nap at 1:38 pm that means he won't be waking up till almost 4 pm then going to bed again at 7:30/8:00 pm ... my oldest on the other hand is refusing his nap... he's been up since 6:30 am and went to bed last night around 11 pm ... so I'm really dragging since I didn't go to bed till whee hours in the am then get up and outta bed at 7 am once the husband left... Wow!
I've drank 20ozs of cola today and that hasn't helped me wake up but at least I'm drinking my sprite to keep hydrated with something that is helping my throat... I have my living room to clean up and I just don't have the energy or strength to clean it with Kayden causing pressure every time I do some serious moving around... plus my living room feels like a million degree's and it SUCKS... Well I am gonna try to rest a little but since my youngest is sleeping and my oldest is of course playing with his toys on the couch...
All be back later of course to keep updated ... damn that little shit faked us out he's not napping he's not banging on his gate... Grrr alright attempt three hopefully I can get him down before 2 pm.
Wish me luck... lol
Well this morning Kayden was very quiet, he didn't move much and I drove all the way out to Springfield to drop off my husbands cell phone that he mistakenly left at home... no big deal he gave me $20.00 to bring it to him so I could put my $18.00 in my gas tank... I guess Whiting Energy no longer does propane so now I'm fucked... Ameri-Gas won't take us cause apparently we are in violation yet we passed when the house was built and so forth... so now we have to fix everything... before they will take us a new customers ... just freaking lovely... RIGHT?! So I guess Ostermen bought Whiting Energy's propane clients but who the hell know's how much they cost... this sucks... since we were told that Whiting was gonna deliver propane to us Monday or Tuesday ... GREAT... how the freak does that happen if they aren't doing propane anymore... like seriously what more can I take...
My goal today is clean the house, pack my hospital bag, and get the bases to the infant car-seats set up and ready for transport ... I'm hoping Kayden will come in the next few days cause I seriously can't take his I'm gonna be stubborn this day and then hyper this day... just come out already little man... we are ready... I mean I would love to meet you and get my belly down a size or two... lmfao.
I'm waiting to hear if Lorne's cousin is gonna bail out on us... like she bailed out on me last time... she better not be fucking lazy here either... I want to be able to rest... not have to worry bout much except packing my damn hospital bag, getting the infant car-seat in the SUV and ready in-case this weekend he chooses to come... Well I'm happy that my youngest has gone down for his nap at 1:38 pm that means he won't be waking up till almost 4 pm then going to bed again at 7:30/8:00 pm ... my oldest on the other hand is refusing his nap... he's been up since 6:30 am and went to bed last night around 11 pm ... so I'm really dragging since I didn't go to bed till whee hours in the am then get up and outta bed at 7 am once the husband left... Wow!
I've drank 20ozs of cola today and that hasn't helped me wake up but at least I'm drinking my sprite to keep hydrated with something that is helping my throat... I have my living room to clean up and I just don't have the energy or strength to clean it with Kayden causing pressure every time I do some serious moving around... plus my living room feels like a million degree's and it SUCKS... Well I am gonna try to rest a little but since my youngest is sleeping and my oldest is of course playing with his toys on the couch...
All be back later of course to keep updated ... damn that little shit faked us out he's not napping he's not banging on his gate... Grrr alright attempt three hopefully I can get him down before 2 pm.
Wish me luck... lol
Ugh what a morning & it's only 9 am
Wow so after a night in the child-birth center in Northampton over at Cooley Dickinson Hospital... and the pit stop to the store to get some snacks... yeah let's just say I didn't get much if any sleep... Cause we got home around 12 am...
We relived my sister-in-law or my husband's sister who was down here to stay with the kids since she thought Kayden was coming, coming but Kayden just wanted to keep us on our toes...
12:15 am we are getting ready for bed my husband decides he want's to drink some more of his Dr. Pepper that he already exploded once in my car... LMFAO told him to be careful... does he listen nope... gets home goes up stairs... lays down in bed opens soda and yet again it explodes... LMFAO ... then he gets pissy cause 1/4 of his soda is gone and he didn't get to drink it... well Dr. Pepper in 20oz bottles or in bottles period are more dangerous than in cans... proven fact. So he managed to soak the bed comforter, get his phone completely wet... (of course his cell phone case broke so yeah he had NO PROTECTION on it so my first reaction unplug it and dry it off making sure no soda go into the ports ... job successfully completed) then we had to strip the bed so I really didn't get any chance of sleep till like 1 am... isn't that nice knowing I had to get up early since my kids NEVER sleep in...
Well I finally get to fall asleep around 5 am isn't that joyful... I laid in bed watching t.v. for the first hour in bed I got to deal with a killer bloody nose... that SUCKED!
Two hours later my husband got up and heck those little rug rats were up too and they only went to bed around 11 pm ... so they are gonna be a little fussy today... FAMILY NAPS are required... only suckie part is I tried texted my husband a few times... then my son gets into his dad's chair and finds his cell phone.. Grrr then around 8:40 I get a phone call from Springfield... low and behold it's the husband I think I left my phone at home... well my first reaction when I saw the number was wow... you realized you left the phone at home... he goes yeah were was it I was gonna have you check outside... lmfao your son found it... it was on the floor in- front of your chair... Guess all head out around 9:30 am to bring it to you... not something I want to do but since I don't know where half way is during lunch time and with No GPS I'm not gonna stress myself out & go into labor in Springfield... F That... so now it's 9:11 am and I'm trying to find clothing for these two fussy, non-listening boys of mine so that we can drive off to Springfield to return dad's cell phone since he needs it for work... JOYFUL... Guess to day gets more stressful besides yesterday's triumphs... oh well all manage just mean's more reason for Kayden to come... yet I still need to pack my bag, clean the bases to the car-seat and so on... Got a lot to do in a little time and with NO HELP from people ... OH WELL all live...
See you later all update once before I go to sleep... to tell yeah if my help blew me off and if I was able to accomplish some kinda REST... lol
We relived my sister-in-law or my husband's sister who was down here to stay with the kids since she thought Kayden was coming, coming but Kayden just wanted to keep us on our toes...
12:15 am we are getting ready for bed my husband decides he want's to drink some more of his Dr. Pepper that he already exploded once in my car... LMFAO told him to be careful... does he listen nope... gets home goes up stairs... lays down in bed opens soda and yet again it explodes... LMFAO ... then he gets pissy cause 1/4 of his soda is gone and he didn't get to drink it... well Dr. Pepper in 20oz bottles or in bottles period are more dangerous than in cans... proven fact. So he managed to soak the bed comforter, get his phone completely wet... (of course his cell phone case broke so yeah he had NO PROTECTION on it so my first reaction unplug it and dry it off making sure no soda go into the ports ... job successfully completed) then we had to strip the bed so I really didn't get any chance of sleep till like 1 am... isn't that nice knowing I had to get up early since my kids NEVER sleep in...
Well I finally get to fall asleep around 5 am isn't that joyful... I laid in bed watching t.v. for the first hour in bed I got to deal with a killer bloody nose... that SUCKED!
Two hours later my husband got up and heck those little rug rats were up too and they only went to bed around 11 pm ... so they are gonna be a little fussy today... FAMILY NAPS are required... only suckie part is I tried texted my husband a few times... then my son gets into his dad's chair and finds his cell phone.. Grrr then around 8:40 I get a phone call from Springfield... low and behold it's the husband I think I left my phone at home... well my first reaction when I saw the number was wow... you realized you left the phone at home... he goes yeah were was it I was gonna have you check outside... lmfao your son found it... it was on the floor in- front of your chair... Guess all head out around 9:30 am to bring it to you... not something I want to do but since I don't know where half way is during lunch time and with No GPS I'm not gonna stress myself out & go into labor in Springfield... F That... so now it's 9:11 am and I'm trying to find clothing for these two fussy, non-listening boys of mine so that we can drive off to Springfield to return dad's cell phone since he needs it for work... JOYFUL... Guess to day gets more stressful besides yesterday's triumphs... oh well all manage just mean's more reason for Kayden to come... yet I still need to pack my bag, clean the bases to the car-seat and so on... Got a lot to do in a little time and with NO HELP from people ... OH WELL all live...
See you later all update once before I go to sleep... to tell yeah if my help blew me off and if I was able to accomplish some kinda REST... lol
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